Jennifer LopezGod’s love costs nothing, but a man must be willing to do his job to get his attention.
I Office romance star, 56, was asked about his love life during an appearance on Monday, June 8, Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohenstating that he is not one to communicate on social media.
“Do you check your DMs, Jennifer?” the host Andy Cohen asked him, Lopez answered emphatically, “No.”
Cohen, 58, continued, “What if the amazing Spanish soccer player is in the DM?”
“I think they will be able to find me, no? If you really wanted to find me, you could find me,” Lopez shared.
Cohen replied:[But] not on Instagram…”
Lopez said, “You can’t find me on Instagram or get into my DMs. You have to make more of an effort than that.”
The “Dance Again” singer is single since she broke up with her ex-husband Ben Affleck in 2024. The couple’s romance began in 2002 when they met on a film set. Gigi. They soon got engaged but called off their September 2003 wedding a few days before it was due to take place and ended up separating in January 2004.
Fast forward to 2021 and the exes reunited, marrying in Las Vegas in July 2022, followed by an intimate ceremony in Georgia in August of that year.
Lopez filed for divorce from Affleck, 53, in August 2024, and the marriage was officially dissolved in January 2025.
During May’s appearance Jimmy Kimmel Live!Lopez said he’s happy to be flying solo for now.
“You’re single right now,” host Jimmy Kimmel commented, prompting Lopez to respond, “I am. I should have done it sooner! I was doing everything wrong. Trust me.”
“I’m not doing anything to ruin the way I feel right now. It’s amazing. I love you,” she said of being single.
In March, the actress and singer revealed her split from Affleck during a performance Good Morning America.
“I took a year off,” Lopez said, explaining that she had to “stop everything” after the breakup. “I canceled the trip. I decided to stay at home and dwell on what happened without running away because of work, someone else, anything. Just stay.”
“I was at a point where I said, ‘What’s going on with you?'” he continued. I wouldn’t blame anyone else because I don’t think that’s where the lesson is. So, I had to really check myself.”
Lopez added, “I feel like for the first time in my life, I’m free. I’m alone. It feels really good. I didn’t really know what that felt like since I was 20, and even before that I always had a boyfriend. There was always someone in my life and a lot of other things that I felt were beyond my control. I’ve come to a point where I have more confidence and I’m more grateful.”
